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Femi Carty
FemiUnited Kingdom

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Femi Carty, BACP

Counsellor - relationships and grief

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  • Integrative approach
  • Telephone sessions
  • Evening video slots

About Femi

Counsellor Femi Carty is a BACP member with four years' experience. He works with people on relationship difficulties, grief, parenting strain, depression, anxiety and stress, plus addiction and trauma-related issues. He also helps with intimacy-related concerns, anger, self-esteem and career questions. Sessions are offered in English and he sees clients in the United Kingdom and internationally.

Femi uses an integrative approach. That means he draws on several ways of working to suit what each person brings. He describes the first session as an assessment where he asks about your mental health and why you are seeking counselling. Together you then plan what to focus on in future sessions.

In practice he combines person-centred listening with structured techniques from cognitive behavioural work and attachment-focused ideas. He also uses emotionally focused and Jungian concepts when these fit the issues presented. The emphasis is on talking through thoughts, feelings and behaviours and finding practical steps to try between sessions.

Femi offers telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time. He asks people to confirm the exact session options before booking. Payment uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time and fees vary with location.

People who contact him begin by completing a short matching questionnaire. After that they schedule a first session where assessment and planning take place. This gives a clear starting point and agreed goals for the work ahead.

How his approaches work online

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns of relating to others. It looks at how early bonds influence current relationships and can help with trust, abandonment concerns and attachment issues. Client-Centred Therapy puts the person and their experience at the centre. The counsellor listens without directing and supports the client to find their own understanding and choices. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is practical and focused on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. It often involves short exercises to try between sessions and can help with anxiety, depression and stress.

Finding the right approach is something to work on together. The counsellor will discuss goals, preferences and what has or has not helped before. That discussion then guides which methods to use and how sessions are planned, so the work feels collaborative rather than imposed.

Session arrangements should be checked before booking so you know what is offered at the time. His practice includes telephone sessions during the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time, which can make it easier to fit counselling around work or family commitments. Telephone sessions can be simpler when video is not needed, while video allows face-to-face discussion in the evening. Ask about formats when you complete the matching questionnaire so practical arrangements match your needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he work with most often?

He commonly works with relationship problems, grief, parenting strain, depression, anxiety and stress. He also addresses issues such as addiction, trauma, intimacy difficulties and self-esteem.

What style of counselling does he use?

He is an integrative counsellor who blends person-centred listening with cognitive behavioural and attachment-based methods. He may also draw on emotionally focused and Jungian ideas when they suit the work.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years' experience working as a counsellor.

Which professional body is he associated with and where is he based?

He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Do sessions take place in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

He offers telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin or book a first session?

Start by selecting the See online counselling options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule your first session.

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