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Lavanniya Langa
LavanniyaUnited Kingdom

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Lavanniya Langa, BACP

Counsellor - relationships and trauma

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  • Attachment work
  • Client centred
  • CBT tools

About Lavanniya

Counsellor and member of the BACP, Lavanniya Langa has 14 years of work in the United Kingdom helping people with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and depression. She speaks English and Tamil and accepts international clients. Lavanniya focuses on practical conversation and steady support when life feels difficult.

She uses a mix of approaches to fit the person in front of her. That can include attachment-based ideas about how close relationships shape us, client-centred work that follows the client's concerns, and cognitive behavioural techniques to address unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. She also draws on emotionally focused and Jungian perspectives when they are helpful.

Sessions concentrate on clear, manageable steps. This might mean looking at patterns in relationships, learning ways to cope with strong feelings, or trying small changes in daily routines. Lavanniya works with issues such as grief, addiction, intimacy problems, body image and parenting strain, as listed in her areas of practice.

She describes her way of working as respectful and sensitive, and adapts the conversation to each person's needs. Practical arrangements and a simple plan are agreed together in early sessions. Clients have the chance to set goals and review progress as therapy continues.

For people wanting to begin, Lavanniya suggests using the site process to match and book a first appointment. The initial step involves a short questionnaire followed by scheduling the first session.

How her approaches work in online counselling

Attachment-based work looks at patterns in close relationships and how early bonds affect feelings and trust. It can help with relationship problems, abandonment concerns and attachment issues by identifying repeated patterns and offering new ways to relate. Client-centred therapy focuses on the person's concerns and experience, letting conversations steer what to work on next. It helps people feel heard and decide practical next steps. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) targets thoughts and behaviour patterns that keep problems going. It is useful for anxiety, depression, stress and coping with life changes.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to decide which methods suit the client's needs, goals and preferences. That choice can change as sessions progress and as the client notices what helps.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as the biography does not specify formats here. Online counselling can make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and day-to-day life. It can allow shorter check-ins, reduce travel time and let people join sessions from a quiet place when they have it. Registered and accredited professionals can discuss practical arrangements and agree a rhythm of sessions that fits each person's routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Tamil

Frequently asked questions

What does she help with most often?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and depression, plus related concerns such as grief, addiction and intimacy issues.

Which therapeutic approaches does she use?

Her practice includes attachment-based therapy, client-centred work and cognitive behavioural therapy, with emotionally focused and Jungian ideas added when useful.

How long has she been practising?

She has 14 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom.

Is she a member of a professional body and where does she work?

She is a member of the BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Tamil.

Can I work with her from outside the UK?

She accepts international clients. Confirm the practical session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Use the site button to view online counselling options, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule the first session.

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