Counsellor profile
Lynfa Wharam, NCPS
Counsellor - relationships and anxiety
See online counselling options- Client-centred work
- Cognitive behavioural tools
- Psychosexual therapy
About Lynfa
Counsellor Lynfa Wharam is a UK-based practitioner with seven years' experience. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief and eating concerns. She also helps with parenting, career questions, ADHD and coping with life changes. Lynfa holds NCPS as a listed credential.
Lynfa writes plainly and draws on a varied background outside therapy. She spent many years working in the law with international firms in London and Essex. That experience shaped a practical, down-to-earth style. Sessions focus on clear discussion of problems and straightforward ways to move forward.
Her approach mixes client-centred work with cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness. She also uses hypnotherapy and elements of Jungian and psychodynamic thinking when these fit a client's needs. This lets her adapt methods as people progress through sessions.
Lynfa has training in psychotherapeutic counselling and hypnotherapy. She also describes herself as a psychosexual therapist and offers work on sexual health and sexual relationship issues to individuals and couples. She volunteered as a mental health practitioner during the pandemic to support NHS and care-home workers.
In conversation she aims to be open-minded and practical. Sessions are described as easy to talk in and based on the client's immediate concerns. People are invited to start by explaining what they want to change and then plan the next steps together.
Online counselling approaches and how they are used
Client-centred work focuses on listening and responding to the person in front of the counsellor. It is about giving people time to talk and having the counsellor reflect what is said. This suits matters like relationship concerns, self-esteem and coping with life changes.Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It uses practical exercises and small experiments to reduce anxiety, manage low mood or change unhelpful patterns. Hypnotherapy uses guided relaxation and focused attention to support behaviour change and address issues such as stress, some eating concerns and habit change.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options and agree what to try first based on goals, needs and preferences. That decision is collaborative and can change as sessions progress.
Session formats are not specified in the original biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit appointments around work or childcare, avoid travel time and have shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can use a mix of discussion, structured CBT tasks and mindfulness exercises effectively in remote sessions.
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Experience
7+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What issues does she help with most?
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, trauma, grief and eating problems among other concerns.
What kind of approach does she use?
She uses an integrative approach that includes client-centred work, cognitive behavioural techniques, hypnotherapy, Jungian elements and mindfulness where helpful.
How much experience does she have?
She has seven years' experience as a counsellor and has a background working in international law for many years prior to counselling.
What credentials and location apply?
She lists NCPS as her credential and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the UK work with her?
She accepts international clients.
How are sessions charged?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin a first session?
Select the See online counselling options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.
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