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Mary Shiels
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Mary Shiels, BACP

Counsellor - Anxiety and LGBTQ support

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  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Attachment work

About Mary

Counsellor Mary Shiels is a BACP member with three years of practice in the United Kingdom. She works with stress, anxiety, LGBTQ concerns, trauma and abuse, grief and depression. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

Mary uses several well known therapeutic approaches to help people talk through difficulties. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to tackle anxious thoughts and unhelpful patterns. Attachment-based ideas are used when childhood experiences affect current relationships and beliefs about self.

Her work often focuses on emotional regulation and managing panic. She also supports people dealing with loss, complex trauma, and relationship fallout such as separation. Mary lists body image, caregiver stress, isolation and guilt as areas she addresses with practical steps and discussion.

Mary has experience supporting people who identify as LGBTQ. She states a non-judgemental approach and mentions supporting sex workers and people with diverse sexual or gender identities. She also notes work related to domestic abuse, coercive control and childhood sexual abuse.

Clients should expect straightforward sessions that aim to identify patterns and try small changes between meetings. The therapist notes use of techniques from Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and Client-Centred Therapy where helpful. Before booking, people should confirm current session formats and practical details via the matching process.

Mary also references wider interests such as mindfulness, resilience work and aspects she calls Emotional Mastery and the Clearing Method. These are offered alongside more commonly named approaches like CBT and ACT.

Therapeutic approaches explained for online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and values. It helps people accept difficult feelings and commit to small actions that match what matters to them. This can suit issues like anxiety, low mood and problems with motivation.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour. It offers practical techniques to test unhelpful thoughts and try different responses. Many people use CBT tools for panic, social anxiety and mood problems.

Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to early relationships and how they shape current trust and closeness. It can help when past experiences affect present connections and self-worth.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will help you compare methods and agree what to try based on your goals and preferences. That choice is collaborative and can change as you learn what helps.

The biography does not list specific online session formats. Please confirm available formats before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Some people find phone sessions use less data, while video sessions allow face-to-face conversation; discuss practical options that suit your schedule and circumstances.

Areas of expertise

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational Interviewing

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she commonly help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief and depression. Additional areas include body image, caregiver stress, isolation and panic attacks.

What therapeutic style does she use?

She uses a mix of approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and Client-Centred work. Attachment-based ideas are used where relationship patterns matter.

How much experience does she have?

Mary has three years of experience working as a counsellor in the United Kingdom.

Which professional body is she a member of?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

Can I work with her if I am outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online counselling options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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