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Nicola Barnard
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Nicola Barnard, BACP

Counsellor - stress and relationships

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  • ACT
  • CBT
  • Attachment work

About Nicola

Counsellor Nicola Barnard is a BACP member with four years' experience based in the United Kingdom. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, self-esteem and depression, and supports people facing parenting challenges, trauma and abuse, and ADHD-related concerns.

Nicola meets people for straightforward talking therapy. Sessions focus on what is happening now and on small, practical steps to manage feelings. She uses recognised approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based methods to guide the work.

She has experience with neurodiverse people and with both children and adults. Nicola aims to build an open, non-judgemental space for people to talk through thoughts and feelings. She asks questions and listens, then helps shape ways to cope that fit daily life.

In conversations about relationships, grief or career stress she looks at patterns of thinking and behaviour. That can mean trying out new ways of responding or learning skills to reduce distress. Sessions often include simple exercises and reflections to use between meetings.

For those dealing with ongoing illness, caregiving strain, or identity and attachment questions, Nicola offers consistent support and practical ideas. Her work includes short-term focused help and longer-term exploration depending on what an individual needs.

How Nicola uses ACT, CBT and attachment ideas online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It often involves choosing small, values-based actions so life feels more manageable despite difficult feelings.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns. It uses simple tasks and experiments to test new ways of thinking and behaving, which can ease anxiety and low mood.

Attachment-Based approaches focus on how early relationships shape current patterns. This can help when someone struggles with trust, abandonment worries or repeated relationship problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will discuss different methods and agree with the client which to try first. This is a collaborative process based on the person's goals and day-to-day needs.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking, as the biography does not list them. Online working can make it easier to fit meetings around work or caring duties, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Registered or accredited professionals can offer online sessions that help people use therapeutic approaches in everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she help with most often?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, low self-esteem and depression, and also supports people with parenting, trauma and ADHD-related concerns.

What kind of therapy style does she use?

Her approach is conversational and practical, using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas to guide sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She has four years of experience working as a counsellor in the United Kingdom.

Is she a member of a professional body?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

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