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Paul Dent
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Paul Dent, BACP

Counsellor - stress and relationships

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  • Addictions
  • Anxiety
  • Relationship work

About Paul

Counsellor Paul Dent is a BACP member with 12 years of practice in the United Kingdom. He works with people facing stress and anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related problems, among other concerns. Paul uses a straightforward, conversational approach and involves clients in setting goals for therapy.

Paul believes people know important things about their own lives. He starts by listening to each person’s story and identifying strengths they can use. Sessions focus on clear aims, with goals reviewed regularly so progress is visible and the work stays relevant.

He draws on approaches including client-centred work, cognitive behavioural methods and existential ideas. That means talking through current problems, noticing unhelpful thoughts and looking at how someone wants their life to be. For relationship issues he also uses elements from the Gottman Method.

Paul offers practical tools as well as open conversation. He may use motivational interviewing techniques when people want to change addictive patterns or build new habits. Sessions look at behaviour, feelings and thinking in simple, manageable steps.

People contact him about a wide range of issues beyond those listed earlier, such as grief, sleep problems, parenting strain, self-esteem and workplace stress. He also works with clients concerned about neurodiversity, attachment issues, and aspects of sexual lifestyle and kink when these affect wellbeing.

Paul asks new clients to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule an initial session. He uses a subscription model for sessions, with fees that vary by location and a cancellation option for the subscription.

Therapeutic approaches and remote counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding a person’s viewpoint. It helps people clarify what matters to them and make decisions that fit their values. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and offers practical exercises to break unhelpful patterns and reduce anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options and agree a direction together based on a person’s problems and what they want from counselling. That collaborative choice can change as sessions progress and new priorities emerge.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so check the available options before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions around work or family life and can reduce travel time. It can also allow shorter check-in conversations when needed, or sessions without video if someone prefers less bandwidth use. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often use remote work to help people keep therapy within their everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does he help with most often?

He commonly works with stress and anxiety, addictions, trauma and intimacy-related difficulties, plus relationship concerns and depression.

How does he work in sessions?

He listens first and then sets clear goals with the client. Sessions combine conversation with practical steps and review of progress.

How much experience does he have?

He has 12 years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and relationship issues.

Which professional body is he a member of?

He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How are fees arranged?

Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time; fees vary with location.

How do I begin if I want to work with him?

Use the See online counselling options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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