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Sandra 'Sandy' Vado
SandraUnited Kingdom

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Sandra 'Sandy' Vado, NCPS

Counsellor - addictions and relationships

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  • Attachment-based
  • Client-centred
  • Trauma-focused

About Sandra

Counsellor and member of NCPS with nine years' experience, Sandra 'Sandy' Vado helps people with addictions, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, and LGBT matters. She also supports those facing major life changes, parenting strain, intimacy issues and self-esteem challenges. Sandra works in the United Kingdom and talks with clients in English, Spanish, French and Haitian Creole.

Sandra uses a conversational, client-centred way of working. Sessions focus on what the person brings each week and on practical steps that feel doable. She listens for patterns in relationships and behaviour, and helps people notice how early attachment experiences affect current choices. When trauma is present she pays attention to its impact on daily life and on safety in relationships.

Sessions are straightforward and paced to the individual's needs. Topics Sandra often works through include abandonment, adoption and foster care issues, attachment concerns, codependency and communication problems. She also supports people dealing with career stress, divorce and separation, and neurodiversity-related matters such as autism and attention differences.

Sandra aims to make space for honest feeling and clear thinking. She encourages clients to try approaches in-session and reflect on what feels helpful. Over time this can change how someone handles conflict, intimacy and coping under pressure.

People meet Sandra to talk about specific problems like control issues, dissociation, caregiver stress and commitment worries. She asks practical questions, outlines possible ways forward, and helps agree small, manageable steps between sessions.

How Sandra uses client-centred and trauma approaches online

Sandra draws on client-centred methods that prioritise the person's immediate concerns and choices. This approach means sessions follow what the client brings, with the counsellor asking questions and reflecting back to help clarify feelings and options. It suits work on self-esteem, communication and relationship decisions.

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. Sandra helps people identify recurring dynamics in close relationships and consider different ways of responding. This can be useful for commitment issues, intimacy problems and codependency.

Trauma-focused methods concentrate on how past harm affects daily coping and relationships. The focus is on practical steps to manage symptoms and on rebuilding a sense of stability in everyday life. Sandra will work at a pace set by the client and will discuss methods that might be helpful as the work progresses.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Sandra will talk with each person about goals, preferences and what feels manageable. Together they decide which elements to try and review progress over time.

The original profile does not list specific session formats, so check the platform for current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling around work, family or study. They also allow shorter check-ins, fewer travel demands and easier access for international clients when that suits someone's schedule.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Spanish, French, Haitian Creole

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly help with?

Sandra works with addictions, relationship problems, trauma and LGBT-related issues. She also covers parenting, self-esteem, career strain and ADHD-related challenges.

What is her general approach in sessions?

She uses client-centred listening and practical discussion. The work often looks at attachment patterns and the effects of trauma on daily life.

How much experience does she have?

She has nine years of professional experience working with the issues listed in her profile.

What credentials and location are listed?

Her listed credential is NCPS and she works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English, Spanish, French and Haitian Creole. She also accepts international clients.

Which session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to begin?

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